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    my dog asleep friday

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    I'm so sorry. My very first was put down back in 2003 and I still get weepy thinking about him. I hope you're okay.
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    thats no good at all i've been through the same its never good at all
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    Very, very sorry to hear that. Hoping you'll be fine.

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    sorry to hear that.. my chihuahua died in 02

    my ex told me she put my dog down cause he nipped her or she lied to me
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    Your puppy?!!! So sorry... <<<hugs>>>

    Nothing on this earth that can be said will make you feel any better anytime soon, but know that there are many here that feel with you -- have been there, and send you all the very best wishes (and hugs...lots of hugs).

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    Quote Originally Posted by redqueenar View Post
    I'm so sorry. My very first was put down back in 2003 and I still get weepy thinking about him. I hope you're okay.
    i feel like shit to be honest

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    Quote Originally Posted by megatron42 View Post
    sorry to hear that.. my chihuahua died in 02

    my ex told me she put my dog down cause he nipped her or she lied to me
    god she was a bitch

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    Your puppy?!!! So sorry... <<<hugs>>>

    Nothing on this earth that can be said will make you feel any better anytime soon, but know that there are many here that feel with you -- have been there, and send you all the very best wishes (and hugs...lots of hugs).
    it's kind of heavy. i mean it comes on the heals of my grandmothers death which i handled pretty well but, with this happening i feel like shit

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    I feel your pain bro. I had to put my childhood dog down this year, it was the most painful thing I have ever done. God bless.

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    god she was a bitch
    got that right.. sheesh she coulda took him to the shelter
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    dude. why? she get sick or bite somebody?


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    it's kind of heavy. i mean it comes on the heals of my grandmothers death which i handled pretty well but, with this happening i feel like shit
    I know, and we've talked about this sort of thing before. You know I'm with ya on this, I really am. Oh course I tend to be a mushbucket, so I'm not really helpful in the cheering up department, but you got to allow yourself to feel like shit. This is real, and you will feel like this and boy if you didn't, well then I'd be afraid for you. After a bit of time has passed (you'll know as it is right before people want to slap you out of it), then you go do what you need to do to remind yourself that you are still here, still alive and it's time to live. I do not recommend being alone. I do however think gross disguesting humor (film, etc.) comes in handy. Nothing sad as you need a little life affirming at the moment.

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    i feel like shit to be honest
    I know. I would, too. I still do, in fact. Even though Muttley was very, very old and quite ready to go. It wasn't little blue was it? He was just a little thing! Damn. I know it sounds crass, but, eventually, get another one. It helps so, so much. In a way, it keeps the old one alive, because we talk about him all the time because we still have a dog in the house, and dogs on our mind.
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    Quote Originally Posted by r-type View Post
    dude. why? she get sick or bite somebody?

    who me or the great
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    Dang. That's too bad.
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    Quote Originally Posted by r-type View Post
    dude. why? she get sick or bite somebody?

    she knocked down a hair product of mine i left on the toilet and cracked it open. She ate it I was gone for two hours i had no money because i just gave my mom some money for my grams funeral so i couldn't take her to the vet until i got paid and by that time it was too late. needless to say i feel like shit

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    Quote Originally Posted by redqueenar View Post
    I know. I would, too. I still do, in fact. Even though Muttley was very, very old and quite ready to go. It wasn't little blue was it? He was just a little thing! Damn. I know it sounds crass, but, eventually, get another one. It helps so, so much. In a way, it keeps the old one alive, because we talk about him all the time because we still have a dog in the house, and dogs on our mind.
    it was her the blue pit man she just turned a year old. even though she was so week she still came would get up walk over to my bed at night too sleep with me. I would have her at the foot and she still got up and walked to sleep at my chest. I stayed in there when they put her down and held her. She wasn't scared at all but it was one of the hardest things in the world. when i went in before they put her down she was looking at me it was hell freaking hell

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    i was with my friend kim years ago when she put her dog jasmine down for cancer. it killed her.. she cried i comfort her
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    I might have no proper words for comforting you because I've never lived with dog nor cats.

    I've been afraid to live with them since I lost my canary. My mother said the bird had a cancer or tumor on her chest, but I felt it was my fault because I forgot to put back the birdcage into a room that winter night. I still remember I was six and freaked out "mom she's frozen it's my fault". Decades later when I found my brother dead, I felt as if I left the birdcage again. I still feel guilty about not being my bird and brother's keeper. My family and friends says don't let it get me down so long, but it's a bit hard to overcome. I still have fear of winter, particularly December. At least since I registered with this site, when I talk with pleasant people here and witty guys like you, I feel like I can make it through.

    I don't know why now I'm typing this crap about my case. I just hope reading something would take your mind off your pain. And if there's anything I can do for you, please let me know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great View Post
    it was her the blue pit man she just turned a year old. even though she was so week she still came would get up walk over to my bed at night too sleep with me. I would have her at the foot and she still got up and walked to sleep at my chest. I stayed in there when they put her down and held her. She wasn't scared at all but it was one of the hardest things in the world. when i went in before they put her down she was looking at me it was hell freaking hell
    well i can say i know how it feels to have an animal you love taken from you. Not to long ago my dog (Shadow) Ya his name was Shadow too... was killed. He got out of the yard and hit by a car. That dog would have killed someone for me. Shit he ran through my roomates door and locked his jaw over my roomates neck just because I said get him. lol I really took it hard and to be honest I cried like a little girl. My roomates went out and got me a puppy that looks just like my old dog and it acts just like him too. So I named him Shadow as well cause I feel my old dog lives on through the new one. As for your dog... Im sorry you had to put it down but I can honestly say I wish I would have had the oppertunity to hold my dog as he passed. Again Im sorry. What kind of dog did you have if you dont mind me asking?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great View Post
    she knocked down a hair product of mine i left on the toilet and cracked it open. She ate it I was gone for two hours i had no money because i just gave my mom some money for my grams funeral so i couldn't take her to the vet until i got paid and by that time it was too late. needless to say i feel like shit
    Wow. I am so, so sorry. I don't know what else to say. I am impressed at how strong you are or, at least seem to be, after such a trying month. I hope things get better for you soon. I know it seems a bit harsh but try not to dwell on this. Don't beat yourself up. It wasn't your fault. It was an accident. Dogs get into things. They're worse than little kids because they'll *never* really understand why they can't have this or that. You'll get through this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sora View Post
    I might have no proper words for comforting you because I've never lived with dog nor cats.

    I've been afraid to live with them since I lost my canary. My mother said the bird had a cancer or tumor on her chest, but I felt it was my fault because I forgot to put back the birdcage into a room that winter night. I still remember I was six and freaked out "mom she's frozen it's my fault". Decades later when I found my brother dead, I felt as if I left the birdcage again. I still feel guilty about not being my bird and brother's keeper. My family and friends says don't let it get me down so long, but it's a bit hard to overcome. I still have fear of winter, particularly December. At least since I registered with this site, when I talk with pleasant people here and witty guys like you, I feel like I can make it through.

    I don't know why now I'm typing this crap about my case. I just hope reading something would take your mind off your pain. And if there's anything I can do for you, please let me know.
    It actually does sora. I'm sorry you have to go through all that. A lot of my family die around the winter also usually it's in the month of Feb. So i know what it is like to dred a particular month. You're constantly watching and wondering hoping no one gets sick. It's a difficult state to be in I know. I feel the same way about my dog. Like i should have closed the bathroom door like I usually do and i should have taken the time to put the stuff back on the proper shelf.

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    well i can say i know how it feels to have an animal you love taken from you. Not to long ago my dog (Shadow) Ya his name was Shadow too... was killed. He got out of the yard and hit by a car. That dog would have killed someone for me. Shit he ran through my roomates door and locked his jaw over my roomates neck just because I said get him. lol I really took it hard and to be honest I cried like a little girl. My roomates went out and got me a puppy that looks just like my old dog and it acts just like him too. So I named him Shadow as well cause I feel my old dog lives on through the new one. As for your dog... Im sorry you had to put it down but I can honestly say I wish I would have had the oppertunity to hold my dog as he passed. Again Im sorry. What kind of dog did you have if you dont mind me asking?
    no problem she was a little blue pit bull

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    my ex-wifes keeshond named monk. got his his head stuck in an kebbler animal cracker canaster, we were gone shopping i opened the door saw him on the floor
    with the canaster over his head. ran down told my ex she came up the ramp fast
    i removed the canaster he was breathing hard he knocked it over and stuck his head in it to get a cookie she called the vet after hrs they told her to bring him in
    he bit his tongue foaming at the mouth convulsing he as running into things
    yes i was scared she said pick him up i said are you crazy he coulda bit me

    year later that's when i got max and yoshi, max was mine yoshi was hers they got parvo.. didn't have the money to get their shots i had a drs appt got home yoshi was dead in the kennel. it killed the both of us max lived. yoshi was a smart dog he wanted to go out he grabbed the leash with out any one teaching him
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